Originally posted 2021-09-29 08:50:37.
Alex Comfort in “The Joy of Sex” his best seller has mentioned sex to be an entirely satisfying link that takes place between two people, emerging rewarded, unanxious and eager to have more of it.
According to him only two rules exist for having good sex, which is, not to perform anything that is not enjoyed and to get to know the needs of the partner and not to have them balked at.
‘Good sex’ is something that differs from one person to the other in unique ways. Although orgasm and pleasure may play a crucial role in equation, having attained full sexual satisfaction would need much more.
How it has been described by Canadian researchers:
“It is not only physical pleasure that sexual satisfaction lies, not absence of problems or dissatisfaction. Rather, it involves an overall feeling that is left in us after negative and positive aspects are considered about the sexual relationships.”
Physical Pleasure
It is in numerous forms that physical pleasure can be experienced by the human body, from kissing, touching gently to hugging.
“It is indeed a fundamental desire to seek sexual satisfaction and the initial natural sexual activity is masturbation, through which eroticism can be discovered, knowing how to respond sexually, to know to love one and to develop self-esteem.”
Oral sex, sexual fantasies, touching and masturbation can enhance sexual pleasure. Several ways are present for heightening the sexual pleasure and to be comfortable with your partner and yourself.
Orgasms
Female and male orgasms are somewhat familiar from physical standpoint. They are both rhythmic muscle contraction series accompanied by pleasure, intense sensations.
They can be experienced differently, mentally, since every person desires the orgasm feeling his/her own way. Arousal and excitement starts the process, and then followed by sexual response and orgasm itself, which releases sexual tension.
Good Sex
It is a unique and highly individual experience. What you know about it, how your culture or society views it and what value you have placed on it in your life, is how you tend to perceive sex.
Good sex means understanding what you and your partner desires, discussing about it comfortably and not performing anything forcefully.
Good sex in relationship could help in achieving overall sexual satisfaction and create happy relationship.
Sexual pleasure and sex can be impacted by with life changes such as getting older and having children. To deal with it, you as well as your partner are required to be flexible, change your thinking pattern and recognize your limitations, while keeping the communication lines open
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