Infertility: Not surrendering to fate

February 1, 2024 Reviewed by Dr Hameed Ibrahim Khokar

Originally posted 2021-09-29 02:21:50.

There are several aspects in life which require time, patience and higher endurance level. At times, we stop pursuing our dreams and ambitions since it might be unrealistically set. There are also some that you can hold to. When achieving things become tough and painful, you simply tend to let it go off seeking a much easier pasture. At some point of time in life, it is not good. You need to train your brain to accept and overcome the challenge. As children, we prefer to have the quick or easy way. Some parents are found to make life much easier and obstacle-free for their children out of love and affection. But in the process, what they fail to understand is that their children will get accustomed to the ease of life and not know about the hardship and obstacles that life has in store for them. Getting things without much trouble also means children do not like to wait and also fail to develop patience and endurance. This is the personality trait they develop as they grow up.

Tackling infertility issues

You need to be positive and as an adult has to train the brain to face adversity and to derive the best possible solutions or remedy at the earliest. There is no escaping the truth. One such harsh reality of life that millions across the globe face is infertility. It can be a man or woman or both. Infertility issues may strike any person and for various reasons. It is quite natural for any person to get demotivated with life if he/she finds giving birth to children is not possible. Everyone wants to increase his family line and children to boast about. But not being able to give birth due to infertility issues can be really devastating for anyone.

Not surrendering to fate

It is easy to surrender and tough to fight adversities of life. But it is not impossible to fight back. If you are affected with infertility issues, it is quite natural for you to lose confidence in self and life. But you need to stay positive and get the support of those who understand your plight. Avoid negative people. Do seek medical help and visit a good IVF specialist. They have many such cases where men and women affected with infertility issues have been treated successfully. Not surrendering to fate will allow you to realise your dream and become a proud parent.